the fine print
Good manners go a long way when making first impressions. While most of us are familiar with the basics of being polite and respectful, I’ve put together this overview to share the kind of etiquette I truly value. It reflects not only what I expect—but also what you can expect from me in return.
Screening & Booking
I want our time together to be as seamless and enjoyable as possible—for both of us. To create a safe and relaxed environment, screening is required before we can move forward with scheduling. Once that step is complete, we’ll be able to confirm our appointment and talk through the finer details. You’ll find all verification options listed on the Engage page.
Discretion
Discretion is everything. Any information you provide for verification will be promptly deleted after our first meeting. Just as I take every measure to protect your privacy, I ask that you offer the same respect in return. What we share—whether in words or experiences—always remains in the strictest of confidence.
Our Engagement
Please check in by phone or email at least two hours before our scheduled time. And a gentle reminder: let’s keep all communication respectful and free of explicit language until we meet in person. A little mystery goes a long way, and discretion is key to keeping things enjoyable for us both.
Our Time Together
Kindness and mutual respect make everything better. I’ll arrive on time, fresh, well-prepared, and fully present—and I look forward to the same from you. When we treat each other with care and consideration, our time becomes not just enjoyable, but truly memorable.
Cleanliness
You can always expect me to be properly prepared, fresh and clean. Hygiene is non-negotiable for an enjoyable and comfortable experience. I can assure you that your effort will not go unappreciated.
Consideration
When we meet, please place donation in an envelope, gift bag or book and leave it in plain view at the start of our time together. This simple gesture sets the tone for a smooth and respectful connection. Please remember: this is an exchange for time and companionship only.
Cancellations & Rescheduling
Life happens, and sometimes plans need to change. If you need to cancel or reschedule, please give at least 24 hours’ notice. Short-notice cancellations may require a cancellation fee or may affect future bookings. I’ll always offer the same courtesy should I ever need to make a change on my end.
Boundaries and Conduct
This is a space built on mutual respect. Agreement, kindness, and clear communication are essential. Any behavior that disregards my boundaries—or makes me feel unsafe—will bring our time to an immediate end without refund. Self-respect and self-awareness is a must.